Proverbs
25:28 Whoever has no rule over his own spirit is like a city broken down,
without walls. NKJV
In Old
Testament times, perhaps more than our modern day, cities were often known to
have walls. The entire book of Nehemiah is devoted toward the rebuilding of the
wall in Jerusalem. Why were walls so important?
Walls
gave protection. Walls provide definition and boundaries. Walls serve as
reminders of the need for discipline and self-control. These days, we may use
fences instead, defining property lines, keeping pets in our own yard, giving
children an area of relative safety to play.
When it
comes to home organization, our systems provide some of this needed
self-discipline and as well as healthy boundaries (i.e. we only eat in certain
areas of the house or paint in certain rooms, etc.) But the systems themselves
won't work for long if we don't maintain, or practice, them regularly.
For
example, you may have created a system for managing shoes and coats in your
foyer. But if you and your family still carry them into the living room and
dump them on the couch, your system won't be of any help. You have to
discipline yourself, and help others be disciplined, to maintain the systems
you have set up.
There
will be times, also, that you will need to do maintenance on parts of your
home. It is natural for homes to age and need repair (just like cars, and us!)
By applying regular maintenance, you can keep your home in better shape for
many years.
Spiritually,
we can use and maintain systems that help us consistently grow. These are often
referred to as "spiritual disciplines." These may be practices such
as church attendance, Bible reading/study, small group fellowship, prayer,
quiet moments, fasting, etc. Without regular "feeding" one does not
grow and strengthen.
It is
important to establish and maintain disciplines in life. Be careful, however,
not to elevate the system above the reason for it. You are establishing systems
in your home to create a peaceful, serving environment, not to become a control
freak. You create unique patterns of spiritual discipline to grow in your walk
with Christ, not to just check off a list to feel like a good Christian.
Periodically
review your systems, whether at home or within your spiritual journey. Tweak
and polish to keep the main thing, the main thing.
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